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#620: To Judge, Or Not to Judge: That is the Question!

Are you confused about when to judge and when not to? Discover how Christian leaders can navigate the fine line between discernment and hypocrisy.


By Ron

January 6, 2025

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Judge, judgment

Just as Hamlet pondered the meaning of life, many Christian business leaders today might find themselves pondering a similar quandary: “To judge, or not to judge: That is the question!”

While Hamlet was dealing with the weight of existence, our dilemma revolves around a biblical tension. Some Bible verses warn us against judgment, while others encourage it. So, where does that leave us in the workplace, particularly when we need to make critical decisions about people’s behavior and integrity?

The Confusion Around Judgment

Many Christian leaders struggle with this issue because the Bible seems to offer conflicting messages about judgment. Matthew 7:1 warns, “Do not judge, or you too will be judged,” but then in John 7:24, Jesus commands, “Stop judging by mere appearances, but instead judge correctly.” So, are we called to judge or not?

This confusion often leads to inaction or over-cautious behavior, especially in business settings where decisions need to be made quickly and decisively. On the one hand, Christian business leaders are expected to exercise wisdom and discernment. On the other hand, they fear the potential backlash of being seen as “judgmental” or hypocritical. The stakes are high—judging others could result in damaging relationships, yet not judging could lead to unethical practices or unsound leadership decisions.

Judging Hypocritically vs. Judging Righteously

The key to resolving this tension lies in understanding the distinction between hypocritical judgment and righteous discernment.

Hypocritical Judgment

Hypocritical judgment is the kind of judgment Jesus strongly condemns in Matthew 7:3-5, where He speaks about noticing the speck in your brother’s eye while ignoring the plank in your own. This type of judgment is self-righteous, focused on condemning others while failing to examine one’s own shortcomings. In business, this manifests as leaders who harshly critique employees without reflecting on their own role in a problem. It’s a judgment that tears down rather than builds up.

Righteous Discernment

In contrast, righteous discernment, which Jesus advocates in John 7:24, requires judging according to God’s standards, not human appearances. It’s judgment motivated by love, seeking to restore rather than condemn. In business, this means using discernment to foster ethical behavior and uphold integrity. For instance, when addressing a breach of ethics, a Christian business leader can engage in restorative conversations rather than punitive measures, aiming to correct behavior while preserving dignity. Another example could be when dealing with a performance issue; a leader can provide constructive feedback and support for improvement rather than simply criticizing the employee.

Balancing Grace and Truth in the Workplace

Christian business leaders must walk a fine line between extending grace and upholding truth. The challenge is learning when to exercise mercy and when to stand firm in judgment. It’s essential to remember that judgment is an act of love when done rightly. We don’t judge to tear others down; we judge to point them toward what is good, ethical, and just.

Consider how Jesus balanced grace and truth in His ministry. He showed mercy to the woman caught in adultery, but He also told her, “Go and sin no more” (John 8:11). In business, this might look like offering a second chance to an employee who made a mistake while clearly communicating the need for changed behavior going forward.

The Role of Accountability

Accountability plays a significant role in judgment. Christian leaders aren’t called to judge in isolation but within a community. Business leaders must surround themselves with wise counselors and fellow believers who can help them exercise discernment. Proverbs 15:22 reminds us, “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” When a decision requires judgment, it’s wise to seek input from others-whether a business partner, a mentor, or trusted colleagues. This practice not only ensures a more comprehensive understanding of the situation but also provides a sense of support and guidance, reinforcing the importance of community in righteous judgment.

When a decision requires judgment, it’s wise to seek input from others—whether a business partner, a mentor, or trusted colleagues. Judgment should always be done in humility, with the understanding that no one has perfect insight except God.

Conclusion

The ultimate question isn’t whether or not to judge; rather, the question is how we should judge. As Christian business leaders, we are called to exercise righteous discernment, avoiding hypocrisy while leading with integrity. Judging rightly means reflecting Christ’s balance of grace and truth—correcting behavior with love and accountability, always seeking to build up rather than tear down.

Action Steps for Christian Business Leaders

As Christian business leaders, understanding the delicate balance of judgment in the workplace is essential for fostering a culture of integrity. The following action steps can help guide your leadership decisions in alignment with biblical principles:

  1. Examine Yourself First—Before making any judgment, reflect on your actions and motivations. Are you being fair and objective?
  2. Seek God’s Guidance – Pray for wisdom and discernment. Ask God to reveal the truth in the situation and how best to respond.
  3. Consult Wise Counsel—Don’t make tough judgment calls alone. Seek advice from trusted Christian peers or mentors who can provide a godly perspective.
  4. Judge with Compassion – When making decisions about others, approach them with compassion and the intent to restore, not to condemn.
  5. Balance Grace and Accountability – Offer grace when appropriate and hold people accountable for their actions. This balance is key to righteous judgment.

Discussion Questions for Christian Business Leaders

The following discussion questions are designed to spark thoughtful conversations among Christian business leaders. They can be used in team meetings, small groups, or personal reflection to deepen your understanding of how to judge rightly:

  1. What’s the difference between judging hypocritically and righteously in a business context?
  2. How can Christian leaders avoid becoming overly critical while still exercising discernment?
  3. In what ways can we balance grace and truth when making judgment calls in the workplace?
  4. How can seeking counsel from others improve our ability to judge rightly in difficult situations?
  5. What are practical ways to ensure that our judgment aligns with God’s standards and not just human opinion?

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Ron spent 36-years in Sales and Marketing with Procter & Gamble before heading off to Talbot Seminary. Now Ron spends all his time writing, volunteering at church, and loving his beautiful family!
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  • Someone at work once brought up this question of being “judgmental.” The reality is that we make judgments about people every day. When we see a suspicious, rough looking fellow on the street, do we avoid him or tell ourselves not to be judgmental? When considering who to promote, we judge the various candidates. It all comes down to righteous discernment, as you outline above, versus hypocritical or unfair judgment. And maybe we’ll never get it perfect. The shady guy on the street might in fact be a splendid person. But making judgments is a part of daily life.

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